Labels ...maybe it's Ranking

All you need is one

Family

I understand why family isn't family, because it simply isn't

we're all relatives building families

relatives

building family units

Community

there is one who has no sister

but she had a cousin

an auntie

now she has a friend

and a cousin and an auntie

but why does it seem as if all she wants is a friend

the friend became her sister

the sister she never had

the sister she thought she loss or is it lost

is it ever both loss lost

you never lose what you never had

never miss a loss

cousin auntie friend

labels

all together

sisterhood

How would the people in your life rank if you removed labels?

Would the grandmother be mother versus she was a mother to me? or like a mother to me?

I know there is only one birth mother, which is irreplaceable... as she is the only way to enter into the world, a female's womb

but what if

The Most High blessed you with the people you needed right when you needed them?

we remove the labels, the ranking, equalized everything

whoever raised you like a mother would be your mother

are you "extra blessed" because it was your birth mother being a mother

no

there is no such thing as an "extra blessed"

If we removed the labels... the ranking...

all blessings are equal, no competition, no higher or lesser value

the seasons the people that come into your life

the seasons they leave your life

seasons who's to say how long you've spent in the same season

time is only meaningful in the essence of it is running out

the pain you go through doing that season

the joy you experience doing that season

doing, going, movement ...until it stops

time is running out

spend your time wisely

you own wisdom

same shit different day

it is

until it isn't

change 555

no matter how hard it is

change

whatever that means for you

always select yourself, what means the most to you, who means the most to you

in that order

We've been conditioned to believe certain things based on how we were raised... taught and simply what we didn't learn... stereotypes we heard... stereotypes we learned ...no blame to place, if we place blame are we saying God doesn't have us right where we're supposed to be? Paths. Straight.

Seriously, is it what's going to happen is going to happen or is it I'm going to make it happen???

Do you do everything you can to make shit happen... and what if what's going to happen happens and it is better than you ever imagined?

711

7th house

11th house

I think they call it spiritual psychosis. Are "they" right? Who's they?

Beyond The Veil -Amazon Prime

they were all lying

lying to each other

while saying I love you

to each other

sisterhood

What's the purpose of a truth or a lie if you're going to believe what you believe?????

Your truth will always be your truth.

There is no loyalty when hurt people are hurting people

but is the hurt always in the mirror, a reflection or not?

you always receive the amount of loyalty that you give

just maybe not from the same receiver

The sisters are in love with the same man

Well one is in love

the other she's marrying for money

he is in love

he doesn't want to marry for money

The parents are involved, third parties

The sisters are mad at one another, understandable

sisters don't always get along

but to not talk to your sister

no label rankings

hidden motives

sisters don't even know the hidden motives

hidden motives of the other parties involved

no label rankings

however the story went

were they even sisters

where were the third parties

support, all getting along no rankings

no labels no rankings

respect, boundaries, understanding

fairy tales have villains, so does real life

notice them sooner than later ...for yourself, live your truth

no matter what that looks like ...petty, bigger person, better than me, whatever shit we say

live YOUR truth and you'll always be at peace

having peace in your soul is priceless

Proverbs 3, 24

I make my request known

I sit

silently

I push past the pain

I surrender each and everyday

I sit

silently

ease and joy

effortlessly

I surrender each and everyday

I sit

silently